Thursday, September 07, 2006

EXPECTATIONS

EXPECTATION – a big word… we expect from ourselves, from our friends, from our parents, from loved one…(not to forget about politicians too…we expect from them also after all)…

We can never realise, from where these expectations come from… may be , from that very moment when a child born… born with lots of happiness & EXPECTATIONS… sometimes it becomes unbearable coz…sometimes our expectations collided with our parents’…& others…

Then comes our friends… we should not forget that everyone is an individual… everyone thinks in a different way… sometimes we expect our friends to do something, but they don’t & vice versa… & problem starts…sometimes we adjust…bcoz no one wants to loose a friend…but…the crack on the glass exists forever…

& our loved one…yaa…if we love someone…why do we want to change li’l things in them…sometimes they don’t like something about us… problem starts…& ends in a break off… we expect that he’ll give us the 1st priority… but we forgot he has his family…& friends… so, we can’t expect 100% priority all the time…

I can say that, in my house , my parents want my attention.. yaa they want… & I know that they are my 1st priority… though sometimes it creates pressure on me… but, again they expect these from me… & so.. now a dayz I stopped expecting from anyone,,, why should I expect???... Whenever expectations become high…it started hurting…… may be, some people will call you by different names… just to pinch you… but thatz better than getting hurt… & when our parents, friends & loved one hurt us… unintentionally…but it breaks our heart… as we know…an unknown person can’t hurt us… coz..we have no expectations from them…

Still…we’ll continue expecting… may be, thtz life, thatz hope, thatz relationship..thatz love……..

4 comments:

Abhirup Chakrabarty said...

Ok.am quoting myself from my diary. jotted the following down on 6.01.2006.

"Never expect anything from anyone.Almost all are the same.They flatter to deceive.U expect sumthing & they turn with nothing or just the opposite thing.Utter bullshit.All these years I have been an emotional/sentimental fool.had to bear a lot of thrashings from my family,but mostly absorbed them for the sake of my friends & their friendship.How wrong I was.I sumtimes try to figure outhow many of my friends actually are beside me when am in a crisis,when I really need them by my side?The number really disappoints me.I feel I expect far too much from everyone,my friends,my family & even myself..Well,life's like that only.U have to live it..no use in grumbling.No room for disappointment..."

Well,that speaks my views,ain't it?[:)]

Nabanita said...

yup.. no room 4 disappointment...very true.....

Nabanita said...

i think our views r quite similar

Abhirup Chakrabarty said...

Yes they are truly.

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